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4 Self-Care Tips for Simple & Steady Self-Improvement

4 Self-Care Tips for Simple & Steady Self-Improvement

I love improving myself. But then there's burnout and overwhelm. Even self-care can feel like a chore when it's just another to-do on your list. And that defeats the whole purpose. If you can relate, these self-care tips are a breath of fresh air.

“Be patient with yourself. Self-growth is tender; it’s holy ground. There’s no greater investment.” — Stephen Covey

Over and over again, I’ve found that small steps, taken consistently and consciously, evolve into big changes.

Instead of loading your plate with big self-improvement goals that eat up all your time, read these self-care tips.

For the sake of ease, delight, and sustainable success, make “simple” your new mantra.

4 Basic Self-Care Tips for Sustainable Success

1. Allow Space for Daily Introspection

Yes. Simple. Even ten minutes, five minutes, or sixty seconds of meditation, birdwatching, making tea, or reading something uplifting is serious self-care.

Starting your day with a moment of introspection is a crucial element in sustained growth; it infuses ease into every step. It also breeds compassion and mindfulness, not to mention clarity of intention.

Intentional improvement, where one is clear about the kind of energy they’re contributing (rather than solely reacting to the world) is sustainable improvement. In simpler words, know how and why you’re growing, and pay attention to your energy as well as others’. This becomes so much easier with a daily ritual of self-reflection, or if anything, just a little peace and quiet.

“You are very powerful, provided you know how powerful you are.” — Yogi Bhajan

2. Nourish Your Journey with Positive Self-Talk

Talking to yourself is therapeutic when it’s compassionate. If negative and self-limiting beliefs spring up while you’re on your way to somewhere brighter, pause and contemplate the validity of these statements. Then, introduce a new statement that embraces acceptance and serves hopeful growth.

Here are some positive prompts, mantras, and scripts to turn the energy around:

  1. “Is it true?” Or “Can I be sure this is true?”
  2. “Self, I’m sorry I’ve bypassed you. I’m sorry I’ve ignored your call. I’m here now. Help me know where to begin. What is life calling on me to do and see? Will you stand with me and give me the courage to stay the course? Together we’ve got this.” — from Kristen Noel
  3. “Progress is better than perfection. Presence is better than perfection. Let’s get present in the process.”

Being exposed as a flawed being = growth of character, empathy, spirit.

3. Add a Good Habit First

Usually, when it comes to self-improvement, we’re trying to release old patterns and build new patterns. The thing is, we’re human and flawed. That mixture of change and imperfection tends to lead to hiccups, and we tend to beat ourselves up every time we fall off the wagon or break a promise. If and when that happens, try something new and tread slowly.

Rather than giving up something totally and completely on Day 1, try adding in a healthy habit first. It’s easier to add than it is to erase.

If you’re trying to drink less coffee, for instance, you don’t need to give it up all at once (or ever). Take away the extremes. Before you drink a cup of coffee, drink a cup of water. Precede the habit you’re trying to release with a healthy habit; the coffee never comes before the water.

Slow and steady is sustainable.

“Self-care births ease, fresh air and laughter.” — Kristen Noel

4. Apply Present-Moment Compassion

Avoiding the discomfort of generating positive momentum when there seems to be none is only a recipe for stagnation or even negative momentum. Change is not always going to be easy; mostly, it’s not, at least not until we’ve learned to embrace the discomfort.

Compassion is the cure and one of the most important self-care tips I can think of. It takes courage. It takes intense presence and the willingness to be there for yourself even though you’re feeling stressed, tired, or stuck.

Every wound longs for compassion.

Offering yourself compassion is giving yourself permission to feel the way you’re feeling. It’s permission to be patient and imperfect, and still be loved and accepted. That kind of treatment is an intelligent way to improve yourself without missing out on all the treasures along the way, without dimming the light that’s already inside, waiting for you to see it shine.

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Tell me:

Which of these thoughts did you need to read today?

Tell me in the comments. I read every single one, and I'd love to know!

Treat your life like a garden. Nurture yourself a little bit every day, and remember it's OK if you don't bloom all year long.

With love,


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